2. The Visit Should Be All About Mom and Baby
You are visiting and newborn and its mother because you love them. Therefore make sure that throughout your visit, it is all about the mom and baby. This is not the time to unload all your work and relationship problems in an endless tirade. She should not at any point be obligated to serve or entertain you during the visit. You can let her talk or talk only about pleasant things like how brave she is and how happy you are for her. If she likes to gossip, you can gossip a little and make her smile with the affairs that have been going on in your social circles for the period that she has been away.